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Chennai Man Asks Reddit If He Should Ask Out Woman He Keeps Seeing At Phoenix Mall

- •A Chennai man turned to Reddit for advice on whether he should ask out a woman he frequently sees working at Phoenix Mall.
- •He expressed that he would love to get to know her better but is worried about making her uncomfortable or putting her in an awkward position while she is on duty.
- •The post sparked mixed reactions online, with some users warning that customer service workers are trained to be kind, while others suggested low-pressure approaches like leaving a note with a phone number.
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A man from Chennai posted on Reddit asking for advice on whether he should approach and ask out a woman who works at a store in Phoenix Mall. He expressed that he has developed feelings for her but is worried about making her uncomfortable or putting her in an awkward position while she is on duty.
The man was worried about making her feel pressured to respond politely simply because she is dealing with customers during her job. He also questioned whether their different regional backgrounds—specifically that she is from Northeast India while he is not—might matter to people.
Users provided mixed responses, with some warning that customer service workers are trained to be sweet and kind. Suggestions included gauging her interest first, avoiding disturbing her during work or approaching her after hours, and leaving a low-pressure note with a phone number for coffee.





