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Woman Asks Reddit: Boyfriend Sends ₹1 Lakh of ₹1.2 Lakh Salary to Family, What About Our Future?
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News18•22-09-2026, 16:37
Woman Asks Reddit: Boyfriend Sends ₹1 Lakh of ₹1.2 Lakh Salary to Family, What About Our Future?
- •A woman sparked a Reddit debate after revealing her boyfriend sends ₹1 lakh of his ₹1.2 lakh monthly salary to his family, leaving him with ₹20,000.
- •She questioned the financial sustainability of this arrangement for their future together, citing limited funds for expenses, savings, and emergencies.
- •The woman sought perspectives on whether sending 83% of income to family is reasonable and how to discuss finances without appearing demanding.
- •Reddit users offered varied advice, from urging direct conversation about potential underlying issues to suggesting the timing of such discussions.
- •Some users cautioned against judging the family or assuming exploitation, while others emphasized the importance of the couple's relationship seriousness.
Key Questions Answered
The boyfriend earns a monthly salary of ₹1.20 lakh and sends nearly ₹1 lakh of it to his family, leaving him with about ₹20,000 for himself.
She questioned whether allocating about 83% of his income to his family is financially sustainable for their long-term future, as it leaves very little room for savings, emergencies, and personal expenses.
Reddit users advised her to talk openly about her feelings and future financial goals. Some suggested waiting until marriage plans are more serious, while others noted there could be a valid reason like paying off education debt.
